Watched a video on youtube entitled "Ten things women do that drive men away"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_sKlL8zP9-c

Pretty wise, and funny too.

Dating a boy, Rob, 21, 5'11", for about a week now. We'll see how it goes. My dad doesnt like him for obvious reasons. My mom did like him, but caught him in a lie, and i dont know how she feels about him now. I feel like we're moving a little fast. He seems pretty into me, which is good. I'm not sure how interested I am in him. I went to pick him up at the bar the other night, he was wasted and talking to 2 older women. About me. So that was flattering. And I walk in (escorted by the bouncer, cuz I'm underage) and they're like, "so this is the girl you been talking about all night!" I was blushing, Rob was all over me, drunk as fuck. I looked like shit cuz I'd just got off work, hopped in the shower, didnt do my hair or makeup or anything, so I was both flattered and embarrassed to be seen like that.

He came home with me, puked his guts out about half the night and I slept on the couch. How fucking romantic.

He apologized like crazy this morning. I dont really judge him for it. He'll definitely be seeing me making an ass out of myself when I'm drunk in the future. But I almost never puke, so he wont have to deal with that. I just get really horny, and then pass out. Well, sometimes I get violently depressed. But mostly sleepy.

I think he's got a lot of issues that havent yet surfaced, and I'm waiting until they do to move forward with this relationship. We're dating right now, but we can come off hot and heavy in public, and more than one person has asked if I was his gf.

I have a pretty strong sex drive, and I've never been monogamous before. Ive always been slepping with 3 or 4 girls or guys at any given time. Variety is the spice of life as they say. I think I'm gonna get bored sleeping with the same person all the time.

I'm blasting Closing Time and I fucking LOVE LOVE LOVE this song!!!!!
Just in case you wanted to know. I just want to fill my head with sound, and stop thinking. Oh Portishead is on now, Threads.

Recording relationship with Rob: (in order of how much they bother me)

Red Flag #1: Moves a lot

Red Flag #2: Requires repeated assurance that I'm interested in him

Red Flag #3: Trying to rush a commitment

Red Flag #4: lack of funds

Red Flag #5: Drinking to the point of heaving

Nobody's perfect, I guess.

If he were to make a list like this I think it would go something like this:

Red Flag #1: She's a whore. She's got boys callin her up tryin to get some booty

Red Flag #2: She's interested in women.

Red Flag #3: She doesn't look me in the eye, or answer me right away when I try to have a serious discussion with her

Red Flag #4: She's overly preoccupied with money

Red Flag #5: She's never been in a monogamous relationship before, I don't know if she can be monogamous.

What can I do to solve these?

I do these to keep him on his toes, obviously. To let him know, I don’t need him. I have other ppl who are interested in me. I’m overly preoccupied with money because Im trying to be responsible with it. OK so

#1/#2 – don’t talk about other boys or girls I like, don’t flirt with other boys or girls

#3 – look him in the eye, speak honestly, but gently

#4 – don’t talk about money so much, don’t balance checkbook infront of him

#5 – don’t cheat on him, duh.